“You know, I’ve had my injuries this season,” he notes, though his biggest frustration is related to the field. “I don’t think it’s any secret to anyone that I’d love to have scored more and assisted more this season, but I feel like I’ve been playing well, even when I haven’t been scoring or assisting.” In fairness, at the time of writing, he ranks fifth in the Premier League for key passes per 90 minutes (2.4) according to Opta. Moreover, the view of his manager is that “there are players that make the team play good and are not in the statistics”. Addressing the matter in February, Guardiola said: “Players today play for the statistics, but this is the biggest mistake they can do.”
In return, Grealish has only words of praise for Guardiola. “He’s an unbelievable coach. He’s just an addict to football. He just loves football. As soon as he steps foot in the building, everything’s just about football, everything’s just for the next game. I can’t speak highly enough of him. He’s a brilliant manager who helps the team so much. I’ve said at times this season that he’s won games by himself, with the way he’s set us up and the tactics he’s given us, and we’ve gone out there and done the job.”
As well as footballing lessons, Grealish is still gaining knowledge elsewhere – not least about how to handle football’s steep emotional swings. He confesses that this has been a challenge for him, first as the boy wonder and later captain at Villa, now as the £100m man at City. He is still learning “just to cope with the good times and cope with the bad times. I think in football, it’s such a rollercoaster ride; you know, you’re up and you’re down. If you don’t get the result that you want, you come home and you’re devastated.
“You don’t really want to speak to anyone,” he adds. “Then, when you win and you score, you’re over the moon. You want to go out, you want to go and see friends, family. And for now, for me, it’s just a thing of not getting too high when you have the highs, and not getting too low when you have the lows. When stuff isn’t going so well, you need to find a balance of making sure you’re alright and you’re in the right headspace. And then, when things are going well, not get too high over it.”
“You’re up and you’re down. If you don’t get the result that you want, you come home and you’re devastated”
He admits that he is trying to practise what he preaches. “I’m still learning that now myself. I’m still trying to deal with when you have a bad game or you get beat in a game. I’m still trying to come to terms with it, because I’ll admit I’m not the best at it. I go home, I don’t really want to speak to anyone, I don’t really want to do anything if I’ve had a bad game or whatever. I don’t go on social media or anything.
“And then sometimes, when I’ve scored or when we’re doing well, I have a thing where I’m too high and too happy. Hopefully, in the next few years, I can keep on improving with that.”
Grealish goes on to cite the advice given him by one of his former academy coaches at Villa, Steve Burns. “He always used to say, ‘Pressure is a privilege.’ Especially as time goes on, I think there’s such a mental side to football now, where you need to be in the right mindset. And you know, pressure is a big thing in football, especially for me coming here for the price tag that I came for, and being English; I think the media try and put a lot of pressure on your shoulders. So like I said, like that coach said to me, pressure is a privilege. And that’s how I just try and see it.”
The “being English” bit is worth dwelling on. The spotlight burned on Grealish last summer when he emerged as a Wembley crowd favourite during England’s run to the EURO 2020 final. He began only one game – the final group fixture against Czech Republic, when he provided the cross for Raheem Sterling’s winning goal – yet chants of “Super Jackie Grealish” filled the Wembley air even before he came on in others. His biggest impact came in the round of 16 tie against Germany, when his desire to run at defenders opened up space. Moreover, it was a Grealish pass that freed Luke Shaw to cross for Sterling’s breakthrough goal, before his cross that teed up Harry Kane for the second.